Can Your Coach Explain Their Approach?

Lisa DeAngelis
2 min readJan 24, 2025

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I love when there is already a word that exists that encapsulates what I’m trying to say! When I was looking to succinctly explain to clients how I approach our work together, I could speak to each of the components but not the whole…until I stumbled on the Scottish word, Spae. Spae means to predict or foretell. Now, before you begin rolling your eyes and imagining me peeking into a crystal ball, I liken it more to Sherlock Holmes using the power of observation to draw informed deductions. Yep, a huge Sherlock fan!

For me, the definition of the word, “Spae” is not only accurate, but its letters form an acronym that perfectly fits my approach. The S stands for science, the P for person, the A for alignment, and the E for evaluate. The visual is presented as a flywheel because information from one dimension shapes the approach to the others. For example, a shift in beliefs may lead to a change in goals, which may lead to getting different feedback from those around them.

Why is it so important for me to be able to explain my approach to my clients? Two reasons. First, so that they can be comfortable in the process. Change is uncomfortable enough. It doesn’t need to be shrouded in mystery. Second, so that they can learn how to use this approach for themselves. The idea is not for someone to work with me in perpetuity. By giving them the tools to be able to coach themselves, they can continue to grow and evolve on their own, only coming back to me if they find themselves stuck—or to share their amazing stories of continued success.

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Lisa DeAngelis
Lisa DeAngelis

Written by Lisa DeAngelis

Ph.D in Business Administration, CEO at Dragonfly Coaching, LLC

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